Disclaimer: This blog may make you feel sad. And that’s OK. We think talking about a pet’s death is almost as important as talking about their life. 

Owning a pet is a joyous experience that we hope everyone can have in their lives. They bring you a very special kind of companionship and unconditional love that is different from what you share with human loved ones.

Much is spent on educating folks on adopting a new pet and caring for their health at all stages of life. But, unsurprisingly, not nearly as much time is spent talking and thinking about how a pet’s life ends. We get it – it’s incredibly sad and no one wants to think about saying goodbye to their best friend. But it’s an unavoidable part of being a pet owner, so it shouldn’t be ignored.

Listen to Your Veterinarian

The sad fact is that, oftentimes, you’re left with a decision about your pet’s life. Depending on their level of injury or illness, there isn’t always a clear answer. But your vet should be able to provide guidance by explaining their quality of life and treatment options. Ultimately it’s your choice. What’s important to remember is that sometimes ending your pet’s life is the most humane and loving thing you can do for them.

Be With Them

One of the biggest mistakes that pet owners make is leaving them alone with strangers at the moment of their passing. Of course, it’s an incredibly difficult thing to witness. But keep in mind that you are your pet’s best friend and your presence, soft words and affection will bring them immense comfort during a scary or confusing time. Stay with them, hold them close and honor all the joy they brought to your life.

You may or may not also want to allow your children to be there. This will be a personal choice for each parent, but it can help kids to understand the circle of life and that this is also a part of being a pet owner.

Favorite Things

In addition to your presence, your pet may be comforted by their favorite items from home – bed, blankets, toys, even clothes that smell like you or your other family members. If they will be euthanized in a veterinarian’s office, it helps to have anything that reminds them of a comfortable, familiar place.

Cremation or Burial

If you want to consider burying your pet, you must first check local laws to find out whether or not you can legally do so near your home or a local pet cemetery. Most pet owners opt for cremation because it’s an easier and more affordable process. You can even choose to have your pet cremated separately so that you can take home their ashes and place them somewhere special.

Grieve

One of the hardest parts of losing a pet can be going on with normal life without them. You expect to hear or see them around the house and get sad each time you remember they’re gone. This is a necessary part of grieving that is totally normal. But you and your family can find unique ways to honor your pet’s life in your home.

Love Again

While it’s healthy to take time to mourn your pet, you shouldn’t close your heart off from getting a new pet. Some say that pets’ lives are shorter than we’d like them to be so that we have the opportunity to help more animals who need our love. We think that’s a nice way to think of it – you honor the pet you lost by rescuing another one who needs a home, which is quite beautiful.

If you ever have questions or need guidance about your pets end of life, please don’t hesitate to get in touch.