For many, pet ownership is an important part of childhood. Playing with and caring for a special furry friend can teach kids a lot about life and responsibility. Plus, they’re just tons of fun.
That said, it’s important for parents not to rush into adoption just because your little one says they want a pet. Adopting an animal is a major commitment, especially when you consider that dogs and cats can live for as long as 15 years or more.
Before giving into your child’s pleas for a new pet, take some time to think things through and prepare your kiddo for all that comes with pet ownership.
Daily Responsibilities
Kids should know that having a pet isn’t all fun and games. For example, dog owners must go for walks multiple times a day, feed them, pick up their poop, wash and groom them and take care of them when they’re sick. Children should share in these responsibilities as soon as they’re able to. It may even be a good idea to dog or cat sit for a friend to see what daily pet care is really like.
Before you bring your pet home, think about creating a chore schedule so that each member of your family has assigned duties on certain days. That way you can get off on the right foot with everyone pitching in.
Learn Respect
It’s incredibly important for kids to learn that pets are not toys. They are independent, living beings that should be treated gently and with respect. This is necessary not only for the pet’s wellbeing but for your child’s safety. Model and teach your children about how to properly approach and touch pets, how to hold them and when to leave them alone. And until you’re absolutely sure that they’ve learned these things, always supervise playtime closely.
Pick the Right Pet
All pets have different personalities, so take the time to choose a pet whose disposition works with your family. When you go to meet pets, bring all the members of your family and have each person interact with any pets your considering. Also be sure to talk to the pet shelter staff, who may be able to guide you towards a pet who gets along well with kids. You may even want to consider fostering pets. This way you can essentially try a pet out in your home before deciding if it’s a good fit.
Get Them Involved
Pet-proofing and training are important parts of pet ownership. Instead of taking this on yourself, get your kiddos involved so they fully understand everything that’s involved. You can have them help remove breakables from low shelves, shop for pet supplies and learn commands that the whole family will use. When your little one is involved in all of these steps, they’ll be more invested in pet care as time goes on.
Having a pet companion can bring many joyful moments into a child’s life. It’s certainly not something to shy away from, but families should take the time and effort to prepare for such a big commitment. When you do it right, you’ll provide your children with lifelong lessons and memories that will serve them well for years to come.
